Re: LILY ANN JUST HAD TwO BABIES!!!! ***UPDATE 03-20-09***
i wouldn't poke around with a flashlight as it may upset the mother. It is strange how easily they can be pushed over the edge. I suggest contacting D before doing anything concerning the babies that can wait (such as touching them, looking in the cage other than changing the food water once a day, poking around with a flashlight, taking pictures) as these acts can stress the mom.
As someone else stated the babies are still blind, and i am not sure if you should still be feeding the mother mealworms as it will cause her to possibly ignore the babies and come running for the treats. I am not certain about this, but you should ask D about it.
I know it is hard, but it is best to heed EXACTLY as D says. Don't touch the babies till after 10 days, and then follow D's instructions on handling them. Keep the noise to a minimum, and try to reduce any stress you can possibly apply to the mother.
So far it seems like she is putting up with you very well. Some mothers i have read about would have killed their babies at the first sign of a camera or flashlight, so in that sense i think you are either very blessed with an amazing first time mother or you are extremely lucky you didn't push her over the edge.
I am glad the babies are doing well, just try to keep some self control. I know they are cute, but they only get cuter, so it is best to wait.