I got mike 10 days ago and he was never in a ball, but would huff and pop whenever i tried to take him out. He wouldnt let me pet him either, but I could hold him. He slowly got better everyday and now **** let me get him without huffing, **** play and run around, and he sleeps on me when hes out- **** actively seek me out, then lay down and fall asleep- and he likes when i pet him while hes sleeping. If I am not petting him,he will nudge me. It takes a while, but they come around... just be patient and more persistent and shell bond with you 