Nobody has a problem with you posting the same thing to different forums and lists. There is nothing wrong with doing that and although many of the same people are on all forums, there are ones that are only on one. The annoying thing is that you make multiple threads asking the same question. You've done this on every forum and list and then wonder why people quit replying to you. Nobody started out being mean, you brought that on yourself by your immature behaviour. Yes, people do have strong opinions when it comes to the welfare of these precious little ones. Some things such as bedding are personal preference but others such as heating is life threatening if not followed. We are here to help but you need to help yourself as well by following forum rules and etiquette and act with some maturity.
I'm glad you have decided to stay.
I'm glad you have decided to stay.