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Old 11-04-2012, 04:20 PM   #1 (permalink)
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My mom put my dog of 15 years down today and she didn't tell me until after the fact. I didn't get to say goodbye. I didn't get to be there. She died all alone because my mom didn't even stay. I can't stop crying about it. It was time, I don't argue that. She has progressively been getting worse for the past few months. I knew it was time and it would be soon, I just do not understand why she wouldn't tell me and give me the choice to be there. I'm not a child. I'm 26 for goodness sake. I understand death and am fully capable of deciding if I want to be there or not. Why take that choice away from me? I haven't seen my puppy in days and now I don't ever get to see her again. I am just as upset about her passing as I am about not being told.
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Old 11-04-2012, 06:12 PM   #2 (permalink)
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I'm so sorry, ktdid. I don't have any great advice or words of wisdom to make it better, but I'm here for you and you're in my thoughts. <3
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I'm so sorry.
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Old 11-04-2012, 07:22 PM   #4 (permalink)
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I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. It's very hard to lose a loved one. I'm sure your mom was trying to protect her child - even though you are an adult. I had to put down my 15 yr old yorkie and it was like loosing a child. I feel your pain. My thoughts are with you.
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Old 11-04-2012, 07:27 PM   #5 (permalink)
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That's awful! Not only is it horrible to have to lose a pet, but to not get to say goodbye... I feel for you. So sorry your mom didn't let you know what was going on.



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So sorry you didn't get a chance to say goodbye. I know how hard that can be
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Old 11-04-2012, 11:08 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Thanks guys. I appreciate the sentiments. I'm still really upset, but my beau calmed me down and took my mind off of it for a little bit and I was able to relax and at least stop crying for awhile.
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