Don't let the aspberger's define who you are. You are you, and will always be you; nothing can change that. Remember to breathe when you get frustrated and find creative ways to express your frustration. My sister was diagnosed with Aspberger's when she was 12; she's 28 now. When she gets frustrated, she draws out her emotions and by the end, she's feeling just fine.
The artwork she does is amazing and it's a very healthy and calm way to express what she's feeling.
I wish you all the best hun, and I know you'll be just fine!